My fiance’ and I play rock paper scissors all the time when we can’t come to an agreement on something. Sometimes I win, and other times I lose, but every time we played, we had fun. Fun works for us and ranks high on our level of priority. Many times we’ve admitted to each other that we don’t care what we do or where we go so long as we have fun. We’re just like any other couple.
Many people don’t do this. We ultimately race to the finish line that is divorce because you don’t know what you don’t know. I started preparing for marriage long before I met my husband and was proposed to. Some things I did was
To be honest, I’m not a fan of divorce unless your life is in danger or your physical well-being or overall health is being jeopardized. I think outside of that, folks should do their best to work things out because that’s what God would want us to do. The outcome is different with this marriage story but it is important to remember that God likes marriage. He blesses us with marriage if done the right way in his honor. I think the reason a lot of marriages end is because of a lot of people’s personal issues and insecurities that they thought would go away with the marriage. We each have individual responsibilities to heal from past trauma before even thinking about merging our lives with someone else.