I get a lot of people that ask me for advice now naturally because I have a ring on my finger and I always start with the absolute truth… I was a hot mess in my past life and I had to spend time with myself and work on myself before I got to where I’m standing today. ..I’ve come a long way but I’ll never forget that I use to sit right where you’re sitting. I use to daydream about my soul mate, what would he be like? How much my life will change once he’s in it. What I had to learn was that instead of waiting for them to show up and change my life, I had to change my life on my own first.